I've hated the Dead from when I was much younger than you. You haven't even explained what could possibly be "good" about this band, you just list live recordings you're "jamming." It's fitting that you're deep into the softest-brained prattle ever unleashed. I'll bet you think you're "better" than the Deadheads you claim to love with detached irony anyway.
Not exactly sure who you're directing this at(i'm assuming anyone who enjoys listening to the dead), but personally I don't feel a need to try and explain why I am able to listen to 'em without all the hangups that most people seem to have. I grew up with the music. And my parents weren't/aren't hippies, either. My Dad just loves good American Rock N' Roll. Sure, they might be "boring"(it's also uplifting, imo), but there is heart in the music. I don't care if you have a problem with that. It's 'cool' and easy for "punkers" to hate on The Dead. Who really gives a shit, though. Punks is hippies.