First saw the Reatards @ Gibson's after "Grown Up, Fucked Up" came out. Meghan from Empty had pics of him from the Stinky's Peep Show just days before, when he drank the ass wine. The show resulted in the infamous "Reatard Vs. Retard" fight and I have a scar on my wrist from the bass drum being thrown at me... Hands down one of THEE BEST SHOWS EVER.
Saw him almost a dozen times after that and loved every show except for the last one, w/ The Oh Sees, which was too fast... and I never thought I'd say that.
I remember Vas telling me after the Reatards reunion show about how Jay had a solo album in the works and that the demos Vas had heard blew everything else off the map. When Blood Visions came out, that shit didn't leave my turn table for months.