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[TVeye77]

I'm shaking in my boots.

I'm afraid KEVIN is going to harm me.


I'll be contacting management now, about all your disruptive posts and violent posts and violent threats. Goodbye, sir.

I promise you I'm crazier than you are and I'm armed.

[kevin]

Not a threat, just an observation.

[bradx]

somehow i missed this thread the first time around, good read!

[Eazy-E]

somehow i missed this thread the first time around, good read!

Kevin, man, where do you get this stuff:  "I said I was queer. I am not gay."

World Class Gobbledygook.

Aren't you also a "breeder"?

[SLASH]

They don't realize it was never meant to refer to gay men: it was always meant as a put-down of other straight guys.

Not a millennial, not ultra PC, and have definitely dropped the "f word" in the past, but when you read things like this in print it does lead you to think.  The problem that people may have with this is you are using a term that does refer to gay people as an insult, which means that you are saying being gay is an insult.

This is spot on, and the reason why it is not justifiable to use language like this to me anymore. I grew up in a somewhat rural, conservative part of Arizona and racism and homophobia were pretty much ingrained in me by contact with my surroundings when I was growing up. However I would like to add that there is something about using this word against jock/bro types that really gets under their skin, like it's the most harmful thing you could say to someone like that and just totally torch their ego with. It does not make using the word any less poisonous or insensitive but in that situation it almost has a different purpose. To be clear I am not saying that it's okay or giving a pass to anyone who does, I think it's pretty ignorant and boneheaded and that's why as an adult I have strived to change my vocabulary when it comes to using words that describe other people's sexual orientation/race as an insult or with negative connotations. In my opinion ignorance is no excuse for anybody to say things like that no matter who you are or where you grew up.

And Kevin! I didn't realize you were back. Have not seen/heard from you in a long time. You say you identify as queer and last I heard you were married to a woman? I realize that identifying as queer/trans/pan/whatever does not mean you are a homosexual especially in this day and age when lines of gender and sexuality have become increasingly blurred, but could you clarify what you mean by that statement specifically? I am curious to know.

[TVeye77]

I have been known to assault people

Wow, hubba hubba. Even I'd suck his cock.

[AggravationOverdose]

I dunno why you want to say fag and cunt and whatever else over and over, but try to show a little class*... have some manners. You're not 16 and drunk on Five O'Clock Vodka anymore. This is a forum- average age is easily mid-30s- it's 2015, if you're over age 16 and still throw these words around, do it in company that is cool with this. You look like a dildo if you're an old fart and you still say nasty shit like this in mixed company. In case you do say some foul shit, you should get punched, but just once or twice... nothing major. There are way better ways to insult somebody. If you can't think of anything beyond cunt or fag, you shouldn't be hanging out at Delilah's anymore.

*I've captured the essence of the thread, right? If I'm off, report me to the moderators.

[TVeye77]

I've captured the essence of the thread, right? If I'm off, report me to the moderators.

I thought this was all about circle jerks?

[AggravationOverdose]

I've captured the essence of the thread, right? If I'm off, report me to the moderators.

I thought this was all about circle jerks?

You got a filthy mind.

[bradx]

I have been known to assault people

Wow, hubba hubba. Even I'd suck his cock.

kevin's over 6' tall, he's quick, and has a temper on him.  i wouldnt fuck with him. 

[bradx]

somehow i missed this thread the first time around, good read!

Kevin, man, where do you get this stuff:  "I said I was queer. I am not gay."

World Class Gobbledygook.

Aren't you also a "breeder"?

i recall him saying on this forum that so many people thought he was gay that he let a guy suck his dick and couldnt get hard, thus not gay.  who am i to judge?  i figure i am at least 10% gay myself, so to each their own.  i dont think its a static thing for all people, like, i can totally get off watching some chick get splashed on the face from a dozen guys, which is basically just video of a bunch of dudes jacking off, hahaha, yet if i just watch a video of a bunch of dudes jacking off, nothing.  sexuality is not set in stone for some people, i guess. 

one question, whats the difference between gay and queer?

[bradx]

also, in my adventures perusing internet porn i discovered one other interesting factoid- there is no such thing as chicks with dicks, only dudes with tits...

[TVeye77]

kevin's over 6' tall, he's quick, and has a temper on him.  i wouldnt fuck with him.

Over six feet? Wow. That's impressive.

I think I'm safe for now, it already stated

I'm not threatening you. If you think I'm gonna drive to Jersey to bla bla bla bla bla hyperbole bla bla bla bla bla bla bla LOOK AT ME! bla bla bla bla I'm known to attack people bla bla bla I'll kick your ass bla bla bla I get off on acting like a nazi bla bla bla look at me I'm a troll I'm a worthless fucking jerk off troll more hyperbole lalala Pink Reason sucks we sold 50 records, I suck ass, I'm fucking crazy bro ask all yer friends about me, they'll tell you I'm crazy & carry weapons, I'll hurt you, I'll fight you, Look at me, I need your attention, I'm known to attack people etc etc etc etc etc etc

[kevin]

It's not as complicated as any of you are making this out to be. I've always been bisexual, since I was a child. This is not something I've ever denied or kept particularly hidden. Most people who have been close to me a long time know this. The story you mentioned Officer Officer Officer Brad was an isolated incident. It was my parent's neighbor and it was a middle aged stereotypical gay man, not the type of person I've ever been attracted to. He obviously sensed I was queer, which is typical, this is something that some men have been able to pick up on since I was a child.

Really though, I find it somewhat odd that anyone would want specifics or question me on how I identify. Imagine if the tables were turned and a man in a room said "I'm not gay, I'm straight" and then someone brought up a story of a man being able to maintain an erection with a particular woman, so he couldn't be straight. Incidentally, there has been multiple occasions in my life when I couldn't maintain an erection with a woman.

User: Krautrockisdead identifies as gay, if I'm not mistaken, also if I'm not mistaken he mentioned never having had sex with a man. I could be wrong about that, perhaps I misread. Not really my business, I don't give a fuck. By some of your logics, he may not actually be gay, right? I mean, if he's not currently actively fucking a man, how can one really be sure?

Also, how can one be sure that any of you who are in committed relationships with a woman are actually straight? Are you fucking other women? If not, how do we know you're actually into women at all? Maybe you're not fucking the woman you're with. Maybe you're doing it poorly, without passion. Maybe you can't maintain an erection. Maybe they're not a woman at all.

The idea that "in this day and age" people can exist on a gradient is absurd. Sexuality has existed on a gradient always, people are just finally able to discuss it more openly than they were in the past, but not with the help of attitudes like some of those shown in this thread.

[nickg]

honestly, i'm surprised people asking for details, too.  also it was pretty apparent to me what kevin meant by "queer" in the first place, but i suppose i've known  him a while. wouldn't say we're close, but...

i've always thought krautrockisdead was a gay woman.