If I go to Oakland, I'll for sure hit one of those places up. Is there a reason why you aren't a fan of any SF BBQ? A lot of the places I was looking at on Yelp didn't seem too great. The last thing I want is food poisoning.
Also, gonna be with the immmediate family. Besides the park, beach, and Exploratorium, what are some good FAMILY FRIENDLY things/places/activities?